Am I gay?

So I have been married to my husband for 3 years going on 4 and I have noticed that I like wemon like alot and some of the stuff he does absolutely grosses me out before I just thought it was because he was a guy and guys do gross things that we dont like but now im starting to notice that I like wemon like alot and I have even thought about being with a woman but I do love him and were trying for our 3rd child but sometimes I feel like I'm only trying because he wants another kid or because my clock is ticking and I still want a son so I'm honestly confused because now the thought of being with a woman actually makes me feel a certain type of way so am I turning gay or just realizing that I am? Seriously need help and advice.

(Update on the situation)- I am in fact bisexual I figured that out because my husband gave me what was called a pass for only the weekend I went out with some friends and sleep with a girl no he did not get mad at me and I liked it alot but I do still wanna be with him so I have been going to therapy to work on my self and we have also been going to couples therapy to work on our marrige and he has excepted that I am infact bisexual and he is ok with it and we have came to a agreement with each other where I can have a pass once a year to sleep with a woman and so does he and neither one of us will get mad at the other and that is what we both have decided and were both ok with it and you can judge me all you want but its my relationship not your's and I appriciate all advice.