Switching to Formula...

I have a 7 year old that I tried to breastfeed with pumped exclusively because he wouldn’t latch...till 3 months...it was so hard for me...I now have a 3 week old and running into the same problem...had a lactation consultant come out the whole nine. I made a decision today that I really want to stop pumping and switch to formula...my husband is pressuring me to keep pumping and I know all the benefits and pros and cons about both...any advice with the husband piece? He just keeps saying I’m home for 4 months and to try to stick it out...but god does it hurt and double the work...I know I sound selfish but it’s just not for me...and I don’t want to disappoint his expectations...and look like I can’t handle this but I don’t think I can...help!