How often do you and your partner have sex?

I'm asking because my boyfriend and I used to have sex just about every day of the week except the week I am on my period because we both find it hard to get turned on with blood being present. It started to taper down to a few times a week and I wasn't complaining I usually didn't go more than a day or two without my period being around. But for the past couple months we are having sex maybe 1-3 times a month max. I don't know where our sex drive went. And when I try to talk to him about it, he says "well what do you want me to do? Quit my job so that I can stay home and have sex with you all the time?" Mind you, I work as well so I'm not home all the time. This upset me because it's not like I haven't been patient. We didn't have sex in the 4 days leading up to my period, 5 days period was around and now the 3 days since my period ended. He never used work as an excuse before. We used to have sex just about every day before work and the day started off great. But now we're at 12 days of no sex. His new habit is rolling over and looking at the news on his phone for 45 minutes then taking a shower and going to work after. Then, he goes to his second job and doesn't get home until it's time for me to go to bed so I can go to work. So we literally don't we don't get a lot of time.

I don't know why things changed he was the one usually intiating it even if I slept through it (he has already been given permission if I'm literally out of it and just beyond asleep to still have sex with me and take care of his needs) but he used to wake me up with sex. And other mornings I'd roll over and start touching him and initiate it. We went from about 15-20 times a month to 2 times a month in a very short period of time. Anyone else experience this? What can I do to get back to where we were.

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