Is this rude ?

So my mother and I don’t get along as much. So I told her she’s so stuck on traditional things and it’s not the 1950’s anymore. She’s traditional and I’m obviously not. She would know this if we had a mother daughter bond.

She said I insulted her by saying this isn’t the 1950’s and that it was rude.

I told her to stop playing the victim just because I’m standing up to her. She has said so many insulting things to me. So she hates when someone calls her out on her bs.

I also said this is why therapy didn’t work out for us because she didn’t want to do the goddamn work as instructed by the therapist. She didn’t want to talk about how living in abuse made me feel or how it affected me. She just wants those things swept under the rug like it never happened. The therapist said we need to work on communication and she gave us tools that my mother doesn’t want to use. It’s either her way or no way.