Late Night Argumentnt

My bf and I got into a fight a little ago. We were watching tv and I told him that I think my family needs therapy. He literally just said okay and went on watching. I got upset because he definitely could have asked why I feel this way or is everything okay at home, but nope apparently the show was more important. He noticed that my mood changed and that's when he wanted to ask me what's up but I told him no I'm not going to talk about it because he clearly ignored me. He apologized and said sorry but this is not the first time he's done this. I'm tired of feeling not cared for. We started going back and forth and I told him I'm not going to tell him things anymore I'm better off telling someone else who will listen like my friends. I mean how exactly does this show you care about me? He was hurt by this and said he was just distracted with the tv and didn't really know what to say to me saying my family needs therapy??? He also started to raise his voice at me so I shut down and went on saying what I should have to prevent this from happening ( seriously??) Then I went on my phone and he accused me of telling my friends about our argument..... I'm just numb to it all and really don't feel I did wrong.