Over protective parents?

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So my boyfriend is 21 and i am 20 and we have been dating for 7months but we are both really mature about our relationship and we talked about kids and marriage already soon. I live at home wih my parents still because i can't financially support myself yet but my boyfriend has his own place with a roommate. My parents are protective so no staying the night or going over to his apartment or any of that. Well my boyfriend wants me to move in with him cause we want to be together but my parens wont approve. What should I do in this situation?

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You're 20... Meaning an adult.

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I moved out at 18 and my mom always been strict but she understood since you are in adult at 18 she just wanted to make sure I was safe where I was living at ... just give them sometime

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Your over 18 you can do what you want my niw hubby and i moved in within a month after dating at 10 months we got engaged and 9 months later we were married we have been married for 2 months now and all i can say its a beautiful thing

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You are an adult. If your relying on your prents financially then I would listen to them for the time being. I'm 28 and have been with my husband since 21. They are your parents so try hard to not leave on bad terms. If things go south you want to be able to go home. Good luck

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Hmmm... Tricky.  I would earn your parents support by being frank with them.  Let them know that you would like to spend more time with your bf and you are both being safe (protection and/or birth control).  Let them know that you want their support and want to be able to have your bf over to visit with them and everything but the strict rules are putting a strain on both relationships.

I wouldn't advise children yet either, but to each their own?

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Well, if you can't support yourself then definitely don't have kids.. BUT you are 20 and you shouldn't be worried about your parents' approval. You're an adult.

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It has only been 7 months and moving in together might not be the best thing to do as he too is young. Sometimes those relationships work out, sometimes they do not, so before you take that step you need to make sure he's not just a temporary distraction. As for kids and marriage, I wouldn't rush it yet, it will take time for you to decide if that is what you want wih him and, depending on the person, 7 months may not be enough time to determine your future yet.

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If you cannot support yourself by yourself I would nort recommend children yet..  What if you and the bf have a bad breakuop

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