What do I do?

Question

Hey friends, so I’ve been single (happily) for about 4 years before meeting my guy. We’ve been official for only about a month now. I haven’t been in a healthy real relationship in sooo long so having a boyfriend doesn’t feel too familiar to me. So My question to you guys is:

what do I do with it?

What do I feed it?

Can it be taught new tricks?

Lol seriously though, any tips or advice being in a new relationship, I’d like to hear😊

what do I do with it?
What do I feed it?
Can it be taught new tricks? 
Lol seriously though, any tips or advice being in a new relationship, I’d like to hear😊

Answer

Establish communication early. My husband and I do what we call "companionship inventory." Basically, it's setting aside time to discuss if there are any grievances, if something is wrong or has been bugging us, or if there is something we can improve on. We used to do it maybe once every few weeks, but now we just say "can we do companionship inventory?" And we stop what we are doing to work out what is wrong. Normally it's over something dumb, like "would you be more consistent in picking up socks," or "can you stop putting my sandwich on the ice pack when you make my lunch?" but it's enough to keep us constantly communicating and learn not to hide our feelings from each other, even if there is the possibility of someone getting their feelings hurt. You also get to hear their side of things and work out why the feelings were hurt. Really good habit to develop, especially if you are looking for something more serious.

Answer

Make sure you are comfortable around each other where you don’t have to worry about acting/looking like someone else. Likely chance is, he likes you for you:) Be patient, relationships take time. -And btw, guys rlly love when u massage their scalp with your hands😂

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