No longer happy

**Long post warning so sorry**

I’ve been married for almost 2 years, and as much as I hate to admit it, I’m not happy. I was 19 (he is older) when I got married and I know that is young so please don’t come after me telling me I was young and naive, yes I know! But I got caught up in the excitement of getting engaged and married and my husband is a great guy so I thought it was all peaches and cream. Well now that we’ve been married for a while I feel like I am missing out on so much. He works a lot and I’m in school and I just feel stuck in one place. I thought I was ready for marriage and family life but I’m afraid I’m not now. I think I got myself into something I wasn’t truly ready for.

On another note, i think people have different opinions on how important sex is in a marriage, but our sex life has always been not the best. He has never made me orgasm, and whenever I have tried telling him stuff I’m into or like, he never does. I don’t know what else I can possibly do without just flat out yelling at him that I’m not enjoying it.

Another problem is i feel like i have nowhere to go.. because of my being a full time student, I don’t have a job, and he is the only one providing an income. So Even if I did leave I couldn’t afford my own place obviously. My parents also just sold their house and don’t really have room for me so I don’t know where I could go.

I don’t want to make my husband sound like a bad person because he really is very caring and hard working and hasn’t exactly done something textbook wrong to cause me to want a divorce. And I think that’s what makes it so hard, how do I tell a guy who hasn’t really done something extremely wrong that Im just not happy anymore?