Im big concerned

A few months ago back in September I was talking to this guy but there were some red flags. He needed constant reassurance that I “liked” him and wanted to talk 24/7. Lots of neediness and moving way too fast pouring his feelings out to me over text. I have known of him since middle school but we were never friends or had any type of bond so the pouring of feelings was weird.

Before I noticed the red flags he had asked me on a date and I said yes.

I decided that I didn’t want to go on the date anymore. I was feeling really uncomfortable about it so I tried my best to be as kind as possible when I told him I didn’t want to go on the date. I told him 2 days before the date was supposed to happen.

He absolutely lost his mind, “why would you do this to me. I’m fucked up because all people do is hurt me. Fuck you, stupid slut.” And just on and on and on. Frankly, I can’t remember if I went off on him or not or just ignored him. The next day it was apologies and explanations for why he acted the way he did.

I didn’t realize until just now but I have the texts in my phone. I searched his name up in my messages and there’s just these. I must’ve deleted the rest.

This was the end of it. I didn’t message him anymore because this was ridiculous, we hadn’t even talked for 2 weeks.

Now dude works at the convenience store across the street from me and watches me pull into my driveway. He literally stands outside of the store and makes eye contact with me. I know it’s him without a doubt in my mind that’s exactly who it is. Idk if I should go confront him with my big guy friend or if I should just ignore it and buy cameras or some shit. I lock my doors everyday and I’ve covered my windows.