Okay ladies I need help

So my baby is a month and 3 weeks old. Ever since birth she's been a cryer. I just chalked it up to her being different than her brother. Well we breastfed for the first 2 weeks but when my milk came in she was even more fussy and I had a terrible oversupply so she couldn't latch. So we switched to enfamil Formula and it just continued. She'd be fussy pretty much all day but evenings were worse. She'd start crying at 4 in the evening and literally not stop until 6 at her next bottle then she'd cry more until her 8 bottle. She would finally be exhausted and I'd put her to bed. She would get up at 12,2,4, and 6 every night. Not even for a bottle she'd just scream and cry. She also had diarrhea from birth. So her dr wanted to switch to gentle ease we saw 0 difference. So then after 5 day we switched to soy. The first 2 days were amazing she was a whole new baby. But then she was constipated and we started back with the screaming and crying. She's okay for the most part when being held but the minute I lay her down she screams. Any mamas go through this same thing? I need advice or help please.