Getting divorced surprise pregnancy

Hi ladies,

Congrats to everyone! Little back story. My ex and I have been separated for almost a year, filing for divorce soon and we have three children, 4,5 and 11 years old. I recently found out I am pregnant by another man. I am so torn by all of this but trying to stay positive. Some of my closest friends and family tell me to abort because of the circumstances and the baby possibly leaving because well- you just never know with these men. Ugh! Can I really have 4 kids!! I know it’s a blessing but damn- am scared. Any advice words or encouragement would be appreciated ❤️❤️❤️ love to you all