I think my husband should help

So we have a two month old that woke up at 3 am...FYI I didn’t sleep yet and it’s almost 10 am and he hasn’t slept and I’ve tried everything. I think my husband should get up and help me or at least tell me to go to bed and I’ll take care of him. I’m so exhausted . Every time I give him our son he is so impatient and waits for me to take him back and makes excuses like he has to pee and to clean his nose and stuff like wth..we made this kid together it’s not only me to feed him, change him, and to hold him on hours on end! My husband plays hours of video games and on his phone. I haven’t had me time in 2 months. Plus, our son was choking today and I completely thought I was gonna loose him because the sounds he was making while he was choking wasn’t normal and I ran to my husband, instead of getting up and helping me..he stayed in bed and was like is he okay..like I need help. It should be common sense. He works but he’s been off for a few days because of the virus.