How do y’all have sex?

So i’m not a virgin but i’m not sure if im just shy or if it’s normal but how do y’all have sex? I usually go into a makeout sesh and one thing leads to another but i never really take off my shirt. I always make sure it’s pretty dark in the room as well and i’ve never let him go down on me orally. Id love if y’all shared tips.

Also another question, do y’all shave like everything right before or do y’all have stubble? sorry this is lowkey a tmi but itd really help a sis out