Had phone sex with my ex husband when he might still be with his girlfriend of 1 Year. Please read**** UPDATE****

I'm 26, same age as my ex and he has a girlfriend of 1 Year

My ex husband and I have been separated since 2016 and we have tried to make it work again in 2017 but he ended it for practically no reason.

Since this happened.. in 2019 he started dating and lived with his new girlfriend (because he got kicked out of his old home) who has two daughters of her own.

Me and my ex have a kid together who's 4 and we video call. My ex hasn't really said anything to me, we hardly speak but he noticed I looked extra nice yesterday in my new silk night dress and said "oh lower the blanket there, I want to see your booty and I want to see your boobs" I do a tease and then decide to get naked, one thing leads to another and with no questions or words exchanged we are both naked and masturbating on video call.... When we were together we did this alot as we live far away from eachother.

Once we finished he got dressed quickly, switched on his xbox, didn't say ANYTHING and just went to play online with his brother And mates but I was still on the call.

An hour almost passes before he then says he has to hangup cause his ipad is nearly dead and I haven't properly spoken to him since then.

I tried searching his fb to see if he has broken up with his girlfriend...otherwise he has just CHEATED and so id feel so guilty.. Well, they still have profile pictures on both profiles of them together.. No mention of breakups, heartaches.. Nothing.

He basically used me!!!!

Then this morning I sent him a photo of my boobs and he viewed it but didn't respond. I asked if it was inappropriate but he said "no it was just random." and left it at that.

I literally feel SO STUPID.

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What do I do?!?!?

I feel guilty for her because I honestly presumed a guy would only be interested IF he was single, it was flattering after all this time that he found me sexually attractive and acted on it, I was CONVINCED I'd never see him in that way ever again.

Hes the last person I've slept with also but he has slept with his girlfriend since I broke up with him.

Help....

I do not have feelings for him despite what people might say

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Do I ask him about his relationship status or about why he asked me to do it?

I wasn't feeling horny, it was all on him

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UPDATE

for all of you calling me a slag it's not true! I haven't had a boyfriend, love interest or slept with anyone in nearly 4 years now!

I've spoken with him about it and he's told me how he's on a break with his girl and has been for a while because he caught her doing drugs. I'm still mid conversation with him.

What you are forgetting is that he still used me and you think I want to cause trouble? I don't it's a good damn thing I never take these comments to heart or take them literally or I'd be losing my mind. Be kinder!!! I'm not a slut or a whore, didn't do this for trouble. I came on here seeking advice and all I've got is judgement.. Its like being in an cyber school, seriously 🤦‍♂️