Due to go crazy. Advice pls

Hey Guys,

My partner/baby daddy. Not sure what to even call him sometimes. Ladies I know as a mum, we do a lot for our babies and I’m not disputing that or saying I don’t want to be a mom anymore but I’m really fed up now. I thought parenting, especially if your still with the person was a 50/50 job?

He doesn’t help with bed time routine, and I struggle a lot with this. Doesn’t change any nappies. No breakfast, lunch or dinner. I have to ask him to do things around the house for example; can you change the babies nappy? Or can you wash up? He can spend hours on his game console, playing with friends that don’t have kids. Last time he took baby girl out by himself was in January. Doesn’t get up with her in the mornings. I have to ask to bath or shower her. When I do ask him to do stuff or call him for something I get this off tone in his voice. I could go on and on. What he thinks is okay and all he needs to do is; Provide (money wise), Spend minimal time with us,Does food shopping (only as pregnant with 2nd baby) and his Home most times.

We are hardly intimate, he doesn’t even seem bothered about a little kiss or cuddle but tbh, by the time I’ve got little miss to bed or put washing on or whatever little things need doing before I sit down/ go to bed I’m burnt out. Let’s not forget I’m 32 weeks pregnant with our 2nd one. When I ask for help or tell him he needs to do more I get told I’m ungrateful or there’s other women out there who wouldn’t even dare to complain. I haven’t got long left now, and I’m really stressing about how I’m going to manage with the 2. I know we always find a way but I’m terrified if I’m honest. Our little one now is so clingy but getting him involved in the smallest things just seem impossible and I’m really starting to think if this relationship even strong enough to last. It can get toxic.

What to do?