Worried .

I am in SOOOOO MUCH PAIN I recently and still is experiencing my first “ Bartholin Cyst “ and it hurt so bad . So discomforting when I walk . Someone please give me advice with me having to go to the doctor. Anything home remedies as well . Oh and does it hurt more when it’s about to rapture? I neeeeeds to know I’ve had it for a week now but it’s more painful than ever . Now its feeling soft when before it was like a hard knot . Is that a sign that is gonna burst ??