Can’t believe he said this

Since giving birth to my second my husband is convinced I’m cheating on him. I’m not, never have never will. He’s always making stu0id comments and if I get upset with him he says if I’m not cheating why am I being defensive? Idk dude probably because everyday for the past almost 5 months you’ve made my out to be trash?! Anyways, yesterday I sent one of his friends a message on Facebook to get his address. He’s recently moved and I was sending he and his girlfriend a house warming package since well we can’t go anywhere due to this stupid virus. I don’t know his girlfriend and she doesn’t know me. My husbands friend however let’s call him Adam was in our freaking wedding. Adam and I were almost step siblings when I dad and his mom started dating back when we were in middle school all the way through my sophomore his junior year of high school. Adam and I are friends but he’s like a brother to me. After I messaged him for his address he asked how we were all doing and I asked how he and his new girlfriend were liking their new place and told him he would need to bring his girlfriend by and maybe we could do dinner after all this virus stuff dies down. Well that evening I mentioned to my husband that I sent off their house warming gift and that I spoke with Adam about setting up dinner some night possibly next month. Well my husband freaked out. Said of course I was talking to another guy (yes one of our closest friends!!) I laughed because he was being ridiculous and asked if he really thought there was something between Adam and I (I mean Adam?! Really?! The guy I used to fight over the bathroom with in morning?! The guy who would leave for school with out me when he was supposed to be my ride?! The guy who took all my shoes and threw them in a tree?! No, ew, no) my husbands response that that question irritates me. He said no he didn’t think Adam and I were having an affair because he trusts Adam... bitch excuse me?! You trust him not me?! Wow ok! I’m just so over it at this point. I have never done anything to make him think I’m cheating. I have deleted all of the guys I was friends with on Facebook aside from family (like my dad, uncle, and brother). I deleted my Instagram account because he “doesn’t have one and can’t see what I post or who I’m talking to.” It’s getting to the point where if I try to tell him something about another couple I can’t mention the guys name. For example, I was trying to tell him about a couple we went to school with, they recently found out they are pregnant when I told him he freaked out saying I was just “stalking all these guys on Facebook” actually I had just saw it on HER Facebook but I didn’t know if he would know who I was talking about if I said just her name... I feel like a prisoner.