Would you get annoyed if your boyfriend watched porn? Comment your opinions because I’m going through this and don’t know how to feel

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Not at all, because I watch porn myself 🤷‍♀️ 
The only exception would be if the porn was a legit addiction and/or it was getting in the way of our sex life. Otherwise, I personally don’t think it should be an issue.

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I would be mad because he said he never has and never will. He is my husband now but as a boyfriend I would have broke up with him over porn. We established on the second date that porn was not alowed. So if i found him watching it it would have been a beach of trust. I wouldn't leave my husband over it but there would be some serious problems we would have to work through. If you don't like it you have to establish rules. You BOTH have to  willingly agreeto or reconsider your opinion or relationship.

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No. I watch it too. I would ask him, ooo what are you watching. I wanna see. He knows what I’m watching too. No reason to be insecure. It’s something to do when you are bored, or pass the time, or horny or lonely or feeling sad or can’t sleep etc. no biggie. Now if he was a chronic masturbator that he can’t function during the day without doing it 50 times a day or couldn’t keep a job because of it, then it would be an issue. Or watching at inappropriate places like church or in front of children etc. then it’s a problem. I have no issue with it. Why try and control someone or deny them a physical need that they are having. I get it, sex is a lot of work, sore arms, sweating, worrying about lasting longer or holding off cumming or worry about your climax or worrying about if they are doing a good enough job etc. it’s a lot of work. Masturbating is pretty quick. You know what works for you. Porn is variety. Do you just watch the weather channel. No you channel surf until you find what sparks your interest. And when that gets boring you change the channel. It’s not that he doesn’t want you. It’s not like he makes you wear horse blinders so you can’t look at anyone but him. We all find other people attractive. Celebrities etc. I like Robert Downey jr. I follow him online. Is he gonna leave his wife for me nooooo. Unless he is tracking down women or cheating with them or has online dating or hook up profiles etc then ya gotta worry and give him the boot. I would never try and control someone or deny them pleasure. I’m not his mother. And your own insecurities or jealousy are your own issues that you need to deal with. It’s not his fault that you are feeling insecure. Or someone else cheated on you. Your baggage to deal with and get over. I’m not blaming him for what other people did that’s not fair to them. Seek therapy if you need to. If he’s not being abusive or an alcoholic etc everyone needs an escape from reality. It helps him relax. Your controlling behavior makes people do things to either spite you or try and do them in secret behind your back. Is he hiring a hooker. No. Let the man live before he does go cheat. I don’t see the big deal.

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Not at all... We do watch porn together at times (it is sometimes playing in the background when we are intimate)... I watch it myself so I can’t say anything about him watching it... I think I may be more comfortable with it cause we watch it together than knowing he is doing it without me if that makes any sense

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Nope, porn isn't a big deal

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He’s a grown as man 🤷🏽‍♀️ It doesn’t change our sex life at all so why would I care how he gets off by himself?

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Not at all.

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No only
Insecure people don’t like their partners to watch porn

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My husband and I love porn. We also like live porn and cam girls 🤷‍♀️

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I don’t really know lol I might laugh at him for it, and be like dude you have me!

Would you get annoyed if your boyfriend watched porn? Comment your opinions because I’m going through this and don’t know how to feel

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