He is still a virgin

My fiance and I have been together for a year and half. I'm ready to take our relationship to the next step.

He is a virgin and has no experience with porn. He does not know what to do and I don't know how to help him without being intimidating.

I have 2 questions.

* How do I ease him into the idea?

*What birth control to you suggesting? Seeing that we would like to try to have a baby next year around this time