Kind of want to hook up with another woman???

Question

So I am a 22 year old woman and have been happily married for 3 years. I love my husband and am in no way looking to leave or hurt my relationship but I’ve been curious. I got married really young and never had the chance to really explore my sexuality. I’m bi-curious and sometimes have fantasies about hooking up with another woman, just once to see what it’s like. It’s actually something my husband and I have talked about and he actually said he’d be okay with it as long as it would be a one time thing and that I’d tell him when it happened. 
So what do y’all think? Should i go for it or is it just trouble waiting to happen?

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I wouldn't to be honest. You are married. You gave your vows and ultimate comitment. He may think he feels ok with it now but what happens if you loved the experience and he doesn't feel ok with it after. Are you willing to risk your marriage over curiousity? That is the question you have to ask yourself and make your decision based on that. It could be a make it or break it moment in my opinion.

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The way I see it, you made a commitment to one person. That's what marriage is. Just because you haven't lived out all your fantasies doesn't seem like a good reason to cheat on your husband. 
If you let other people into your marriage, and start having sex with strangers, it can make things messy really fast.
And what if he wants to have to sex with another woman? Would that be ok? What if he changes his mind and realizes he's actually not ok with it but it already happened.. I just don't think it's a good idea.

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don't ruin your marriage over curiosity ..
he can say he's fine with it now then throw it in your face later.. not only that you're married and whether he "approves" or not it's still "cheating" and as others have said on the post once you do it you're opening more doors to possibly want more.

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Trouble waiting to happen. If you did a threesome I guess that would be better. However once you cross that boundary it’s easy to do it again....

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I think this is something you should have explored before you decided to get married. Now that you’re married, you made the commitment to your husband and I don’t think cheating (whether he thinks he’s okay with it right now or not) is an absolutely terrible idea.

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I think you’d probably have a fun time, a good experience. But then I don’t think you’d think it’s worth it in the end.

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If your husband gave his approval, I guess that’s what matters. I would be a bit concerned about where it could potentially lead, but I think it would depend on the circumstance.

Kind of want to hook up with another woman???

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