sex life isn’t the same anymore

at the beginning, he was all over me. with kisses, hugs, SEX. now it’s been one month and he hasn’t initiated once. today I said “let’s have sex” and he said that it’s not my high fertility day today. and I said we don’t always have to have sex just for a baby, it can be for us too. and he just wanted his own space.

I’m worried about what could be reducing his sex drive? it’s really frustrating, especially when we don’t have sex in a long time and then when we do, he lasts a whole 4 minutes at most. 😔 it’s making me feel really irritable and grouchy