advice ladies??

Question

okay sooo my boyfriend and i have been getting a little bit sexual recently and we’ve been dating for around 9 months now and he’s ready to jump into actually having sex and i don’t know if i am yet because him and i were hanging out and he asked to do it and because i was so nervous i lied and said i was on my period... anyone have advice for calming down my nerves about this😭🙏

Answer

Sounds like you’re simply not ready. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do! 
Be honest with him. If he gets pissed, then you dodged a huge bullet.

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My advice? Don’t have sex unless you are 110% ready and comfortable. 🤷‍♀️ it isn’t about him being ready. Both of you need to be ready. You need to be ready to be safe and accept the consequences of having sex both physically and mentally.

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Don’t have sex until you’re ready. Have you guys discussed condoms or you getting on birth control? Until you have a plan that prevents pregnancy, you should not have sex, especially if it’s in the heat of the moment.

advice ladies??

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