Shaving

I am 14 and I started shaving my coochie. My mom and I don’t really talk about this stuff and I feel awkward if I’d ask her but I feel as if she’d get mad. but I get a bunch of razor bumps when shaving. I’ve heard conditioners and oils work but I’ve been using soap. I’m scared if I use conditioner or something it will get infectioned. Is this something to worry about? Can you give me some tips please😂🧡