I 38 i am divorced for 11 years now i haven't been with a guy since then i am now talking to someone i new when i was younger when we met both of us were in relationships at that time so we are talking now for 3 years i am in Guyana he is in new York i cant go to new York i try about 6 times for a visa and he is refusing to come for us my son love him i told him many times to go move on but he keeps calling back he used to send us stuff but he has stop would promise to but doesn't anymore my point is i love him but how can i wait for him and yes he did cheat on me many times during the past 3 years we are talking