Why doesnt my bf like spending time with me

My bf & i have been together for 6 years. 5 years long distance & 1 year living together. When he first moved here he would make more of an effort to spend time with me since i guess it was so new & we spent years being apart. Now i feel like he has no intention of spending time together. All he says is that theres nothing to do (since we’re being quarantined) but he’s been saying that even before all this happened. He spends hours each day playing ps4 with his friends. I can never just get a day with him. Before this pandemic, he was working from home & i was working 8 hr shifts beginning at either 8 am or 12 pm so there wasnt much time for spending time together since we are also in school. Not even weekends he spent time with me. Once in a while we’d go out but majority of the day he was playing ps4. We would go out & then he’d go straight to playing again. Hes spent over 8 hrs in one day before. I’m at the point where I’m just tired of being the only one making an effort to spend time with each other. For me, quality time is a huge thing. I love spending time together & ive told him this before. But i feel like just doesnt care enough. I feel like he’d rather spend his days playing ps4 than with me. When we were long distance, he’d drop everything to hang out with his friends. I just dont know what to do anymore. I’m really upset right now because he spent all morning & afternoon doing schoolwork & then went straight to playing. I told him how i felt & how we havent spent much time together & i obviously was upset. All he did was get mad & say the same excuse of “theres nothing to do” so he went to play which obviously upset me. I know a huge thing for him as in “love language” is acts of service. So today i spent the day doing his laundry, organizing his closet while he did homework. I feel like i try to do things for him that makes him happy just so he can i guess reciprocate & do something i like which is spend time together but it obviously doesnt make a difference. Also, when he spends majority of the day playing, (which is practically every day) at night when he finally gets off he’s too tired to do anything & knocks out. I’m just really upset right now & i dont know what to do. I also dont care that he plays ps4, I understand thats his way of spending time with his friends as well. But i feel like his priorities are his games over anything. I cant help but feel unimportant.

update:

We used to play ps4 a lot during our ldr. Ive tried to play games with him but he just doesn’t want to. I feel like theres an excuse for everything.

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