thoughts on anal

what do u guys think of anal? im too scared to try it. i know it hurts but like is it pleasurable ever? my man wants to do anal but im too nervous for that. also why do guys like anal so much, i know its a smaller hole but damn, what about my pussy... maybe im not being open minded. like sometimes he tells me, let me see ur butthole but like... i dont feel comfortable with that. and then he doesnt ask to see my vagina. im pretty sure its not a big deal but it bothers me that he prefers to fuck my ass and not my pussy.