I BARELY GET HORNY 😫

First time having sex was 15 out of curiosity 🙁 After that I stopped and was celibate for about two years. I started back having sex at 17ish when i got a bf but we never had sex everyday because we did not live together and we were busy with school/work. After that i was celibate till i met my husband

Im not a sex freak to begin with i could basically go years without sex. Idk if it runs in the family because my mum havent had sex since she got divorced which was 10 years ago.

Now i am 25 and married and i barely get horny except if i am on alcohol... IS THIS NORMAL?? I am barely in the mood for sex too 🤨 *I find my husband attractive and i do think we have great sex when it happens* ALSO I dont get as wet as i used to be ... we have to use lubes (Yes we have oral sex) I HATE been like this! What can i do to change this??