Nobody will eat

So I'm the chef of the house. I'm the only one who will cook. I cook multicultural foods and everytime I cook my family turns into toddlers. So it's my mom my 2 brothers me and my daughter. Other day I cooked cowboy casserole. My mom said "ew why did you put tomatoes in it." She ate the same meal before and loved it. Now all the sudden because found out it has tomatoes she won't eat it. My oldest brother (9) will sit and complain about everything. I'll be in mid cooking and he'll come and say "that doesn't look good" or "you put to much this" My daughter is the only one who will eat without complaining. Then there some nights when I slave in the kitchen and my mom will bring home take out. I made baby back ribs the other day and a bunch of sides. I'm waiting for her to get home to eat. She knows I cook at 3:30 every day. She comes home at 4:30 with a bucket of chicken. Didn't even asked if I already cook. It drives me crazy I feel so underappreciated. Then if I don't cook for her she'll blame me for making her spend all her money (she did before)