Turn off?

Does anyone else get majorly turned off when your husband gives hints or straight up tells you he wants a blow job? I think my man thinks he’s being sexy or something when he mentions that kinda stuff but really it just annoys me and makes me not want to get intimate at all. When I was a teen I was in an abusive relationship, the guy I was with at the time was abusive physically, mentally, and sexually. So I think that definitely plays a part in my sex life now. The man I’m with now is very genuine and caring and I know when he mentions these sexual things he thinks he’s being cute or getting somewhere. But honestly it just makes me straight up mad. I feel bad that I’m not all over him all the time but given how I was treated in the past and the fact that we have 2 children and live in a tiny 2 bedroom condo sex is honestly the last thing on my mind.