What do I say

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So where should I start 3 yrs ago I meet this guy ... and we started having an unprotected sexual relationship .., we have a 17 year age gap which doesn’t bother me at all.. he talked a few times about not have kids .. because he has a 23 year old . Yes I know I should’ve used protection so recently I found out that I’m pregnant 🤦🏾‍♀️ which is ok for me but I know he’s gonna loss his mind ...My first reaction was to go ghost on him because I know he would try to convince me not to have have this child . But for me I honestly feel like I don’t want anything from him I can do this on my own . I’m so confused on what to do . In my mind I feel like it would be so much easier with me just ghosting him 
I need advice I’m so nervous and upset about this

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He can lose his mind all he wants! Unless you lied about being on birth control or something. Hes grown enough to know what can come of unprotected sex.

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We never talked about me getting on birth control ever ... or us doing things to prevent this from happening ... I honestly I thought because of what my doctor said of my chances was very low on getting pregnant since I lost a ovary I just didn’t consider on me getting pregnant

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Hey, hope you're doing okay. Tell him, make sure he knows nothing is needed from his side and you've decided to keep the child. He can't force anything on you and he deserves to know. Ghosting might seem easier but maybe your kid might benefit from knowing (in the longer run) and temporary discomfort (as you let him know) right now might lead to happier times in future for your kid!

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You should tell him... it’s his child.

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If he is old enough and wise enough to have sex with u.. then he should know.. he might not like the idea but once it sinks in that u are not changing ur mind.. he may change his mind.. some men do.. and if not.. u move on.

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Well he needs to know . He’s a grown ass man he knew what he was doing when he wasn’t using protection . Don’t be that fucked up bitch that doesn’t tell a guy she’s pregnant . It never ends well .

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Please update! I really want to know how it goes. And you'll be a great mommy, you do what is best for you at the end of the day. I feel like you should have more of a say so especially because you're young, you can definitely do it on your own like you said! You go girl! I'm definitely rooting for you. You'll do great and you'll be great.

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