Pressed charges on loml

Okay so, me and my partner got together 2 years ago. I do truly love him despite the fact that he had controlled and physically hit me twice in the past.

The other day someone sent him a picture of someone that was like a brother to me holding mine and my partners son.

I am not allowed to speak to ANY males in this relationship that i was in only family members. Not even if i see someone at the shop and they ask how the baby is and thats it.

Anyway, he got a taxi to mine and started kicking off and then waving a knife about by neighbours house to which my neighbiur ran round to my moms house and told her she better follow him as his got a knife.

Anyway, i left my brother from another mother and walked back towards my house with my bestfriend and baby.

We seen him at the bottom of the road when u come out of the park and my mom and dad pulled up next to him to ask him for the knife but he said he chucked it.

Anyway i seen him shouting in my moms face so i told my bestfriend to walk up slow with baby while i ran up there to try to get him to stop.

He started shouting in my face calling me a sket and slag and about my hair being dyed blonde. Then my bestfriend had finally reached us after about 5 minutes of walking slow up the road so our son was there in the pram with my mom holding the handle, in the middle of it.

I had told him on the phone while me and my bestfriend was walking towards mine i had our baby with me so if he wanted to talk to wait until he was back inside the house with my mom and dad as he said on the phone he had a knife and was coming for me and other people. I told him about 10 times to go home due to our son being there and being infront of it but he never listened he instead said he didnt give a f×ck and continued to go out of his way to cause a scene in the street and find me.

Anyway, he went for my mom but my bestfriend had got in the way and then he also went for my bestfriend a few moments later after i had put the baby in the car.

He snatched my phone out of my hand and kept saying i couldnt have it and he was going to sell it and then i rang the police on my moms phone and sat in the car. He then smashed my phone and continued shouting in my moms face as she kept telling him to just give the phone back.

He kept saying no so my mom went on the phone to the police and they advised to leave if he wont follow us back. So then basically we left and got back to the house.

Literally 3 minutes after we walked through tbe door and i had put our son on the matt he was by my house so my mon said get away from the house and he ran and tried to force his way through so my mom and bestfriend had to try push the door shut the second time he did this his arm and leg were in the way so my mom opened it and pushed him out the way and then managed to close the door and lock it. He then smashed my moms plantpot over the floor.

He lingered outside for about 10 minutes before leaving WITH my iphone xs max that i had only had for a month. We went on find my iphone and tracked his locations but the police bever caught him till after 8 as he was on tag and had to be back at that time. My phones last location was near his back garden.

The police released him on bail pending investigation but as there wasnt enough evidence they said they probably couldnt do anything.

I dropped the charges and he had snapped me even though he had bail conditions not to contact me.

I then asked him to just give me it back as i cant get a new one because its not insured and i cant log on to the pay later apps i need to pay without my sim but he insisted he never had it so i told him either get it from where he put it or ill ring tbe police and put the charges back on.

He kept saying no.

I threatened to burn his tracksuit he had given me. He still said no so i broke his chain he gave me.

Then i rang the police n got the charges put back on and told them he breached his bail conditions.

Am i in the wrong?

{I dropped them because i thought ok hell probably give it me back now.}

{I had told him multiple times to home as i had our 6 month old baby with me and he never which is also a main reason why i rang them in the first place.}

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