How often do you get rejected for sex?

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My husband is not really interested in sex, been this way for the first two years of our marriage.  I dress up, I do lap dances, try to keep things exciting, but he's just not a sexual guy.  Guess I'm just trying to feel not so alone...

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Last relationship it was like constant..I wanted sex a couple times a day and my partner was a once a month-er. He was up to twice a week when we first met then it just declined. My newest relationship and now husband is more active sexually and I probably harass him twice a day and get it once a day...sometime three times a day

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Lately we're in this weird funk. He's not very affectionate so I kind of used sex as my way of getting affection out of him. Due to the pregnancy we've already been having sex less (35 weeks) but it's been almost 3 weeks and I've sent so many hints. The last 2 nights I gave up on hinting and was straight forward... BOTH nights he said he was tired, turned off the TV, rolled over and went to sleep. This is not like him at all.
With the new baby coming and him not being able to meet the baby until I bring her home, I THINK we're just both going through some things. Like he's overly stressed maybe..? Idk.
I guess I used your post to vent. Im sorry i don't have any advice for you but you are NOT alone.

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It’s pretty rare. Usually when my husband is just too tired. But most of the time I’m the one saying no because my anxiety is through the roof and my brain can’t just think about sex while I’m doing it 😂

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It doesn’t happen often but he will reject me sometimes and i’ll sometimes reject him. but we also have a very active sex lite.

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Yes. All the time. I have a way higher sex drive than him.

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Never. He’s usually the one initiating because he has a high sex drive and I have a medium low drive.

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Nope im the one that does the rejecting I have to use lube to have sex without getting hurt but I feel physically disgusting afterwards hense the rejection....    See if he’s stressed about anything or if he’s having problems with his manhood or (I hate to say this) possibly something that’s turning him off that you don’t know about.

How often do you get rejected for sex?

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