What would you do?

So back in November my childhood friend (I’ve known her since kindergarten, we went to K-8th grade, high school and college together, she was also my maid of honor) and I made plans to go see the Velveteen Rabbit with my 3 year old, we both live in the outer part of the city but the show was in downtown. About 30 mins before I was about to leave the house, the rain starts coming down heavily so I decided to leave my daughter at home with my mom and just go myself, as I’m leaving the house to take the bus, the intersection in front of my house is FLOODED, the drains were backed up causing water to spill onto the sidewalk, my boots are soaked! My hubby then offers me a ride to the train station only I first get a text saying the power went out at one of the underground stations which isn’t a big deal since that’s not the stop I’m getting off at... 5 minutes later I get another text saying that all of the underground stations lost power meaning no trains going in any direction. But that time it’s 3:20 and the show is starting at 4, the show is only 1.5 hours long. She lives in the same neighborhood as me but in different part of it so she too needs to take the train downtown. I text her explaining to her what happened, that we can’t go anymore however I’ll gladly pay her back and we can pick her up and she can come over to hang out. She says we would still have time to go despite it being 3:30 and NO WAY of getting out there (turns out other parts of our city were flooded too). Since then she hasn’t texted or called me, not during the holidays and not on my birthday. I sent a group text to her and our other friend to see how they were doing during our shelter in place, she responded, however when I responded to what I had been doing all she said was “ok” and has never said anything to me since then.

My husband thinks this is incredibly petty on her part and thinks I should just cut her off completely (I’ve been through some other shit with ex friends whom I’ve cut off too so he’s adamant that I don’t need her in my life either) however I’ve known for her 31 years and we’ve been through shit together so I’m hesitant too....

What would y’all do?