Normal or no?

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I feel like every time me and my boyfriend have an argument, it takes him about 20 minutes before he’s trying to have sex with me. I told him that i don’t feel like he’s doing if for the right reason and it’s not pure love and sex but like anger but assured me it wasn’t. I can’t help but feel though like he uses sex as a crutch to help him get over things we go through.  Does anyone have any insight or opinions on this ?

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Personally, I think sex after arguments is always the best sex! However, you should talk to him about the way this makes you feel! How is he expected to know how you feel if you don’t tell him?

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We have never had sex immediately following an argument, our sex is always passionate, crazy wild, and it’s because we are happy, I feel like sex after an argument would be disconnected, we don’t need that aggression to make it good

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So my ex would sometimes do the same thing like once our relationship was about 8 months in when he would get or annoyed and we would be having an argument we would resolve as fast as we could and once he could tell I had calmed down then he would ask me to send him pics and that we should do stuff over ft (we were long distance) and he would tell like he likes it more right after an argument but it started happening so often I told that it feels like he’s doing it because he’s mad and doing it to release his anger and we talked about and he told it was a mixture of love and wanting me but also a way to let out anger and frustration which didn’t help my feelings so I started just telling him I wasn’t in the mood and yeah he found other ways to let out steam (he broke up with me when we were 1 year and 4 or 5 months) so I say try to talk to him about it

Normal or no?

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