what do i do

Question

so for me and my boyfriends one year anniversary￼ I promised him we will have penetrative sex. Even though i get nothing but pain from it. my biggest fear is he cums before me but i don’t know how to talk to him about this ￼￼￼

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Sit down and talk to him about it BEFORE your anniversary. He should always respect your wishes - but I would do it ahead of time. I’m sure he’ll understand. I have troubles with my body and penetration sometimes and my guy has always been understanding

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If these are your worries you are to young to be having sex. Sex is an expression of love between committed partners because a baby can come from sex. You need to know that who you are sleeping with has enough love and respect for you that cumming is never an issue and the order in which you both perform sexually is never an issue.

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You don’t have to do it if you don’t want to, even if you “promised” it, you’re free to take it back. You shouldn’t be fearful during or thinking about sex, so I just don’t think you’re ready. Educate yourself on how to make sex more pleasurable for you and talk to your boyfriend about how he can help make that happen. It shouldn’t be painful and you shouldn’t be scared. So don’t do it until you feel comfortable

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You are allowed to change your mind about sex at ANY point! If sex is causing you pain every time though, I might talk to your doctor about it

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If you haven’t talked to your doctor yet about this you should.

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Just Bc you promised does not mean you HAVE TO. If you need more time and some more action to get you there pls take all the time that you need. He should be okay with that and respect it. and if he is that big of a horndog that he can’t let him go find some elsewhere. My friends sister took a week at her mans house to lose her virginity. Everyone’s different. Everyone has their own pain tolerance. Nothing is wrong with you. Just take it easy and do as you please 🥰

what do i do

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