Words of encouragement or advice for this single mama would be great

So my ex and I were together for 4 years. We have a 15 month old daughter together. Our relationship was very emotionally, mentally, and financially abusive.

I finally got out.

When we were together, I was so blind that I let my credit tank to try and build his up. His ended up getting higher than mine so he bought a house in his name only that we lived in. We had gotten loans together and had a credit card together (total of $15k debt). Well, since we have split the baby and I are living with my mom to save money until October. He’s still living in his house. He owns his car and essentially has no bills and makes $14/hr. He hasn’t paid me a dime in child support other than $50 out of his $4,000 tax refund. Well, here’s the kicker.

He has filed bankruptcy. He is keeping his house though but now our combined debt is ALL on me. I was trying to cut him a break and not file for child support but now I don’t care. I’m so angry at myself for letting a man drag me down like this.

I’m trying to be the best mom I can be and he only sees our baby once a week. I feel like he has gotten off SO EASY and I’m just here drowning...

(I do have a great job and make great money, so I’ll be ok- it’s just very frustrating)

Any hype to make me feel better would be GREAAAAT lol