Constantly being put down, depression

This is like a constant cycle. She’ll be good for a couple weeks and then a break up happens and all her negative energy gets pushed on me. Then she’ll be good again, and then with her new man she is constantly in an attitude unless she is talking to him. I’m 32 weeks pregnant and she stresses me out to no end. She is constantly telling me how I’ll be “overwhelmed” and constantly saying “you’ll see” and how my babygirl will put strain on my relationship with my husband.. just because it happened with her. She is constantly nagging about how I’m not getting anywhere in life because my job let me go with the coronavirus pandemic, but my husband makes enough so I can stay home for awhile with my daughter. She is constantly in a mood, for instance I came by today and smiled at her, she just stared at me and walked off. She is either telling me my husband will leave me or that I don’t understand the way the world works or that I think it’s so easy, throws everything she’s done for me in my childhood up in my dace and it’s getting to the point where she really causes me to be depressed and stressed. She then tells me not to stress because it isnt good for the baby. I’ve already tried telling her how she makes me feel and that I don’t need a lecture every other day but if it isn’t the way she sees things, it’s wrong and my fault. When she calls and I say I’m just getting up (9:30-10) she’ll say I’m sleeping all day, or I sleep my life away. Just really dont know what to do 😕 nothing I do is ever good enough. Asked hubby for advice and he just said to not listen to it, in one ear out the other but idk how to do that..