Do you think I can dispute it

I went to order something on lovers lane and I accidentally clicked on a site called wild secrets. I admit I didn’t really read it but I guess when I saw it I thought it was a part of lovers lane. I ordered a lingerie set and 2 sets of thigh highs. And when I ordered it it said there was a problem with the payment but that my order was confirmed. I looked on my bank app and the charge went through but it says “pending”. I quickly realized that it was not lovers lane, and I’ve emailed them asking to cancel the order since it’s not even validated yet. My boyfriend looked up their reviews and they have horrible customer service and some people never get their shipment etc. at the moment I can’t dispute the charge because it is pending but as soon as it posts I’m going to try to dispute it. It was really dumb. I should’ve paid more attention but I googled “lovers lane” and that’s what came up and I thought I clicked on it but I didn’t. They had good prices but also looks like they don’t have good quality toys.