Sex life is hurting 😭 need advice!!

In my marriage my husband consistently sexually rejects me, sex is extremely important with my love language, he knows, but things don't really change. He tries to initiate for awhile and then goes off the sexual map for awhile.

I've stopped trying to initiate, because I feel like he feels pressure that I'll be upset when he says no. I feel like he needs time to heal that part of himself. I've been really trying to let him know I love and appreciate him in other ways. I know I can be rough around the edges and can have a short fuse, so I'm trying to work on that and help him feel relaxed in our marriage.

I am kinda just going through the motions right now, I know in marriage one person has to do 70% sometimes or more.

Do you think what I'm doing is good for our marriage? Will he always reject me? Thanks in advance ladies, feeling some sort of apathetic and broken way today.