Had it up to here!!!!

Ladies, I need some advice. My husband, my dear hard working husband. I love him to death. He works every day as a diesel mechanic and greasing trucks so he gets pretty dirty. Well he comes home and absent mindedly will sit on furniture or lay down without taking a shower (and the grease is on his arms and hands and face) and EVERYTHING white or light colored we own is dark with stains because he WILL NOT LISTEN. So if anyone knows how to rid cloth of pesky grease stains and deal with a husband that doesn’t listen please let me know. Thanks in advance