Relationship issues

Me and my fiancé have a great relationship. He’s a great man & would love to spend the rest of my life with him. The downfall is that he’s kind of controlling in a way. He doesn’t want me around other guys, I can’t talk to them, I have to watch what I wear, I can’t go to certain places. Also, I’m on deployment so he always wants to be on FaceTime . Usually when I’m out doing something with the girls or whatever group I’m im, he always finds something to get upset about and he’ll want me to stop everything I’m doing to answer the phone . He’ll call me multiple times. I’m not gonna lie, I’m a very strong minded person so I always say what’s on my mind which isn’t always the best way to have to conversation with him. I get really irritated with these things and sometimes I can get a little disrespectful. When we fet into arguments regarding these issues I feel like maybe he’s just not the right one . We both also feel like he’s very sensitive with things and I’m very insensitive. I just don’t see it being a problem, and I feel like I never give him an issue to not trust me . What should I do ? Should I just stick around and deal with those flaws ? Idk . I need help ! It’s being going on for over a year