Am I wrong? Please tell me if I'm being petty
I had a discussion with my husband tonight about feeding the baby at night. Our LO is 4 months old and wakes up around 2 times in the night for a feeding (I exclusively breastfeed). He has never once fed the baby nor offered. So tonight I asked him if he would hypothetically feed LO if I pumped milk and left it in the fridge. His automatic response was "will you be upset if I say the truth?" I said no, I was just wondering and then he said of course I don't want to wake up in the middle of the night. And then ya...I got pissed even though I said I wouldn't get mad. Because I am the one who has been doing that for the past 4 months every night! And on top of that I take care of the baby all day (my husband works from home so I try not to disturb him). And even when bedtime comes around I also do the routine on my own. And then I do the nighttime feedings. So I'm basically doing it all on my own. I also would like to mention I cook every night, clean the house, and am a full time student with exams coming up next week. I feel overwhelmed and drained, and then he tells me this shit? I'm pissed really. Am I wrong for thinking this way? This man gets a full 8/9 hours of sleep every night, so God forbid it's ever disturbed 😑🙄
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