Co worker dilemma.

Hi. I work as an untrained engineer at a hospital. I used to work under a maintenance technician but somethings he said made me feel uncomfortable. One day we went on an errand where we had to travel somewhere to fix a kitchen faucet. He told me that he barely sees me out since seeing me at a singing competition with some friends. In coming back to the hospital he asked why I dont have a boyfriend and I should have one because I am a beautiful girl and offered to take me to lunch for valentines day (which was 2 days away). This guy is about 42 years and has a wife who works at the same hospital cleaning and children and I am 24. In a state of shock, I didnt say yes or no but said yes when he stated for me to think about it. I still didn't go btw. Out of respect for his wife and children.

I managed to halt the convo, I asked him for the wifi password for me. Which he gave me when he returned back to the office. When no one was in the office, he said that I needed a boyfriend and then clapped several times. So I asked what does that mean and he laughed and clapped again. He asked what I would be doing with the money im getting, that I should buy land and I said I want to travel and he said I go anywhere with you but i'll buy my ticket.

One day I went to work and said good morning to him and he didn't say it back. And after that I didn't say it to him again cause it'll be like talking to a brick wall.

As a young lady, I feel uncomfortable in the work place. I brought the clap/ sex situation up in a meeting and nothing has been done. The man dont even look in my direction most times.

What's your thought bubble on this?

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