My SO and I got into an argument today. It started off by me telling him I wanna go to a certain gym. He has a membership at planet fitness right now but can't go due to an injury. I've tried planet fitness out and it's not my scene and I like larger gyms where I don't feel limited. So I said I might wanna go to this gym. He got so upset with me bc I "didn't wanna work out with him" when that's not the case. I would love to work out with him I just don't like planet fitness. So why should I have to limit myself to that gym only? And then he started making accusations about how I just wanna go meet other guys and how I don't love him anymore and that he "knows for a fact" that I'm talking to someone else. And that's the farthest thing from the truth. I am so faithful to him. He was raising his voice at me, made accusations, and then blamed me for the whole fight bc I "had an attitude" well of course I'm gonna have an attitude when you're accusing me of seeing other guys. And then he told my daughter that "mommy is mean" like do not bring a 2 year old into this and try to convince them that their mom is mean. That's so low and childish. Am I wrong for wanting to go to a different gym than him?? I don't understand where he is coming from at all. Thoughts?
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