Visitors

How is everyone dealing with visitors when your baby comes? I am a FTM and having severe anxiety about it. We thought about having everybody go get tested before meeting baby but it still makes me nervous because none of my husbands family has slowed down so I worry about people holding baby.

Also how is everyone dealing with their MIL? Mine has already bought stuff for her house and I literally feel like she’s going to take our baby as soon as I have her. (Already talking about baby spending the night at her house right after I have the baby) I am so overwhelmed. She told me last night “you aren’t going to lock your doors when y’all come home” I want people to enjoy our baby but I also don’t feel like I have to literally co-parent with my MIL either.