How do I talk to my husband about sex life?

My husband and I are pretty vanilla with sex. And I keep having dreams about us spicing things up. I’m just not sure how he’d react because I tried using a bullet vibrater before sex and during the beginning of sex and he got really jealous of the vibrater. But I want to use other toys and explore more. How do I go about this? Like I want to watch porn together, use toys like dildos and soft restraints. I’m just nervous that he’ll be weird about it