UPDATE- my bf misses work

This is second update now.

I wrote I believe a couple of days ago how my bf has missed 4 days in the past month & a half

He works in union and has a idc attitude stating if they let him go he’ll always find another job site

1st time- he was hungover

2- he took Xanax night before due to his anxiety and didn’t wake up the next morning

3rd- too tired

4th- woke up with bad anxiety

A lot of ladies started telling me my “attitude” wasn’t right that I should try helping him because he might be depressed & suffers anxiety.

I suggested he sees a therapist he said no he just need to eat better and work out for his anxiety.

I gave him some CBD drops to help anxiety.

Guess what? He went into work yesterday and his boss let him go.

He calls me saying he just reached out to another job site and that it’s easy so he doesn’t want to hear me.

He went to sleep at 2am woke up 12pm today

And I told him why is he starting this ugly habit.

He said he’ll be fine.

Now today at 5pm he’s getting drunk

Am I still being hard on him ladies??? He’s 27 years old how can I “be there for him” when he doesn’t ever care.

I don’t even know what to do anymore, part of me doesn’t want to deal with a man child but other part of me doesn’t know if I’m over reacting. Never had to deal with this before.

What do you ladies think now?