Every little thing he does has been annoying me

I dont know why but the past couple weeks every little thing my fiance does bothers me so much. It can be the stupidest, silliest thing ever but I just get so irritated and annoyed and I dont know why. The reasons behind my annoyance are so silly that I haven't brought myself to even mention it to him because I would feel silly for complaining about it.

This morning was a morning full of annoyances. He calls me at 6AM while me and his children are sleeping to ask me if I had the debit card. I told him I haven't had it all week, that hes had it. So then he gets home and hes telling me he doesnt know where the card is and he needs to buy milk. Like I dont know what he wants me to do? He had the card and I've been up all night with our infant and not really interested in holding a conversation when theres nothing I can do about it.

So then he leaves to check the bank even though he would have lost it yesterday morning and it certainly wouldn't be there anymore. And then he calls me again on his way home to talk about how he couldn't find it. Like its 7AM, I am trying to sleep while our kids are still sleeping. Can this conversation not wait?

So then when I get up only a half hour later because hes so loud and wakes our toddler I have to call the bank to report to the card lost. So now I'm out of a debit card until who knows when because everything in my state is still closed.

Then I walk into the kitchen and see that he opened a package I got from amazon and had it sitting on the table and threw all the packaging away. Like it's really not a big deal but I was so irritated he would just go and open my packages and not say anything or leave the receipt or anything.

Hes been opening my packages all week and I've asked him to stop and to stop throwing the receipts away but apparently he is still continuing to do it 😒

All morning I have just been so irritated with him. From the moment he told me he lost the debit card I was just over this entire day.

And it's so silly that I'm so annoyed but I am 😫