Am I being too dramatic by being pissed?

So I’m a full SAHM and one of my chores is the bathrooms. My fiancé pays the mortgage working while I do utilities with my savings.

Anyways, he got on my ass about not cleaning the toilet right bc he saw a pubic hair behind the toilet lid and for the first 10mins of the conversation, he borderline thought I didn’t clean the toilet and thought I tried to lie that I did. I’m fucking pissed bc I know I scrubbed and wiped the entire toilet, and then he made me watch him on how he would clean the bathrooms. I feel like he was patronizing me (or am I being too negative?).

In the past, he would get on my ass about cleaning the glass in the bathroom a certain way bc there will be places I would miss and I swear to god sometimes I just hate him bc I don’t feel enough even when I’m feeling accomplished during my time of depression.

Am I being irrational?