In your opinion, what is crossing the boundary in regards to your SO looking at other females online?

I’m ok with occasional porn, if SO needs to wack one out quick and I’m not around or if it’s that time of the month. (Boundary can be crossed and issues needs addressing when it’s replacing sex or if he’s doing it because he’s not satisfied with sex)

I’m ok with him having a quick look at any pics of celebs/insta models that may pop up on his for you pages or if it’s retweeted ect

I’m not ok with him searching and seeking out girls, or searching certain tags or subreddits that bring up these types of pictures, for example the gone wild subreddit. I’m not ok with him seeing a pic on social media and then going onto the girls profile and scrolling through her pictures (especially if it’s just a random girl not a celeb/model) am I crazy for feeling this way?

- I basically discovered that my SO does some of this (and its not just any pics, it’s big boob lingerie type of pics, and when I asked him about it he said it’s normal, he wouldn’t mind or feel insecure if I was doing it - it’s just a case of ‘appreciating the beauty’ and some women are attractive in different ways than I am attractive but we are equally attractive and he still thinks I’m beautiful. He said it’s nothing more than looking at pics he’s not jacking off to them or trying to instigate a conversation. He said if I’m not happy with it that he will stop doing it. However, I still feel insecure about it - I have admittedly snooped on our shared computer history (that’s how I found out he was going into girls profiles) and recently there is nothing sinister coming up in his history like there was before but it looks like bits and bobs have been deleted. And I still often notice him quickly hit the back button or scroll out of his phone or turn it off when he hears me coming or if I’m sitting opposite him and I stand up. It’s possible that I’m being 100% paranoid - I don’t know! Am I crazy? Should I say something? If so what and how without sounding crazy - he already thinks I’m a little crazy For searching the history! We have been married 10 years he’s never given me any reason to mistrust him and I don’t believe he’s cheating it’s more extensively looking at girls online!